Tag Archive for: Personal Growth

The People Who Taught Me

This story is about gratitude.

The most valuable teachers are not always the most impressive.
Often, they are simply the people who leave us unable to think exactly as we did before we met them.

I carry many such people with me.
Not their titles. Not their positions.
Not their achievements.
But, their lessons.
And in the end, that may be the only part of any of us that truly survives.

When people speak about mentors, they usually describe a senior figure who intentionally guided their development.
My experience was different.
Most of my teachers never applied for the role.

Some never realised they were teaching me at all.

  • An Executive Chef taught me humility
  • A Dishwasher taught me respect
  • A General Manager taught me authenticity
  • An HR Director taught me that people and performance are not enemies
  • A COO taught me pace
  • A CEO taught me to first set direction
  • A Peer taught me the difference between competence and trust
  • Others taught lessons they never intended to teach

Some through generosity. Some through discipline.
Some through conflict. Some through disappointment.

Many through example. A few through warning.
What connects them is not whether I agreed with them.
What connects them is that something survived the encounter.
A lesson. An idea.
A perspective. A question.

The more mature I become, the less interested I am in judging people as successes or failures.
Most people are both.
Most people possess strengths and weaknesses.
Most people are struggling with challenges invisible to everyone else.
The same is true of organisations.
And certainly, true of myself.

Looking back, I realise my career was shaped less by formal education than by observation.
Watching people. Learning from people.
Admiring people. Occasionally arguing with people.
And sometimes discovering wisdom in places I did not expect to find it.

The people who taught me rarely resembled the teachers I imagined I needed.
Perhaps that is why their lessons endured.

Thank you for reading my story.

This story is part of a series—”The Banana Republic Hotel and What It Taught Me About Myself”—in which I share lessons learned throughout my professional and personal journey and how those experiences have shaped my thinking and led me to develop my own principles.

If you enjoyed reading the story and have the appetite to read another one, you are invited to visit G&A’s website, in particular its INSIGHTS page, where you can find all stories.
Alternatively, click here to be taken to the next story.

I hope it has provided some food for thought, encouraged curiosity, and inspired you to keep learning.

Curiosity, humility, and continuous learning remain among the most valuable tools we possess.

Terminology for non-hoteliers:

  • SOP: Standard Operating Procedure – a documented process describing how a task should be performed to ensure consistency, quality, and compliance.
  • KPIs: Key Performance Indicators – measurable indicators used to monitor performance and progress against objectives.
  • ADR: Average Daily Rate – the average room rate paid by guests.
  • RevPAR: Revenue per Available Room – a measure combining occupancy and room rate to assess hotel revenue performance.
  • Occupancy: The percentage of available rooms that are occupied.
  • DOF: Double Occupancy Factor – the average number of guests staying in each occupied room. A DOF of 1.0 means every occupied room has one guest; 2.0 means every occupied room has two guests.
  • AGC: Average Guest Check – the average amount spent by each guest in a restaurant, bar, or other food and beverage outlet.
  • CRS: Central Reservation System – the central booking system that manages a hotel’s room inventory, rates, and reservations across all sales channels.
  • PMS: Property Management System – the software used to manage reservations, guest accounts, and hotel operations.
  • OTA: Online Travel Agency – websites such as Booking.com or Expedia that sell hotel rooms on behalf of hotels.
  • GDS: Global Distribution System – a worldwide booking network used by travel agents and corporate travel departments to reserve hotel rooms, flights, and other travel services.
  • CRM: Customer Relationship Management – systems and processes used to manage guest relationships and marketing.
  • F&B: Food & Beverage Department – all restaurant, bar, banquet, room service, and catering operations within a hotel.
  • Half-Board: A hotel meal plan that includes breakfast and one additional meal each day, usually dinner. Drinks other than those specifically included are generally charged separately.
  • MICE: Meetings, Incentives, Conferences and Events – the hotel business related to corporate meetings, conferences, exhibitions, and incentive travel.
  • ERP: Enterprise Resource Planning – an integrated software system that connects key business functions such as finance, procurement, inventory, human resources, sales, and reporting into a single platform.
  • USALI: Uniform System of Accounts for the Lodging Industry – the internationally recognised accounting standard used by hotels to measure and compare financial performance.
  • GOP: Gross Operating Profit – the operating profit generated by the hotel before management fees, rent, financing costs, depreciation, taxes, and other non-operating expenses.
  • EBITDA: Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation and Amortisation – a widely used measure of an organisation’s operating profitability.
  • COS: Cost of Sales – the direct cost of producing the goods sold, such as food, beverages, or merchandise, expressed as an amount or percentage of revenue.
  • FTE: Full-Time Equivalent – a standard measure of staffing that converts part-time and seasonal employees into the equivalent number of full-time employees.

About the Author

Raoul Gransier is a Senior International Adviser and owner-focused hotelier with more than 30 years of operational and advisory experience in hospitality, tourism, governance, and performance improvement.

Website

https://gransier.com

The Hotel HR Director Who Learned to Love Numbers

This story is about how curiosity taught me that people and performance succeed together or fail together.

One of the most persistent misconceptions in business is that people and performance are in competition with each other.
My experience suggests the opposite.
Poorly managed organisations damage both.
Well-managed organisations support both.

The challenge is not choosing between people and performance.
The challenge is understanding that sustainable performance creates the conditions in which people can succeed.

If somebody had told me at the beginning of the project that the strongest advocate for performance management would eventually emerge from Human Resources, I would have been sceptical.
Very sceptical.
A hotel HR Director taught me that lesson.
And she taught it far more convincingly than any consultant ever could.

At the time, the HR Director represented something important within the organisation:
Culture, care, wellbeing, development, and respect.
The company genuinely cared about its people.
And she was one of the principal custodians of that culture.

Performance management worried her.
Not because she opposed improvement.
Because she feared what numbers might do.
Like many people, she saw a potential conflict.
People on one side. Performance on the other.
Compassion versus accountability. Culture versus profitability.
The concern was understandable.
Many organisations manage to create exactly that conflict.

Yet something unexpected happened.
She became curious. She asked questions.
She challenged assumptions.
And, at times, she gave me a hard time.
She wanted to understand. Not the spreadsheets.
The thinking behind them.
Slowly, patiently, and somewhat reluctantly at first, she began exploring concepts she had previously avoided.
Performance. Productivity. Profitability. Measurement. Expectations.

The more she learned, the more her perspective changed.
Not because she cared less about people. Quite the opposite.
She gradually realised that satisfied employees do not emerge from good intentions alone.
They emerge from functioning organisations:
Sales must perform. Operations must perform.
Finance must perform. Engineering must perform.
Managers must perform. Expectations must be clear.
Responsibilities must be understood. Resources must be available.
Only then can an organisation create the conditions that allow people to thrive.
That realisation changed her perspective.

She eventually understood something important.
People are not separate from capital.
They are one of the most significant investments any hotel makes.
Most organisations treat people and capital as different conversations.
One belongs to Human Resources. The other belongs to Finance.
Yet sustainable organisations depend on both working together.

She came to recognise that salaries, training, development, engagement, and leadership are not merely costs.
They are investments expected to generate outcomes, just as any other investment within the business.
Equally, she understood that capital without capable and motivated people rarely delivers its intended return.
People and performance are not competing priorities.
Nor are people and capital.
In healthy organisations, people, performance, capital and purpose are interconnected.

Strong performance creates opportunity, stability, investment, development, and career growth.
Strong people create the performance that makes those things possible.
The relationship is not adversarial. It is symbiotic.

Over time, she became one of the strongest advocates for performance management within the organisation.
Not despite her commitment to people. Because of it.
She recognised that performance management, applied within a healthy and humane culture, protects both people and capital.
Most importantly, she reached that conclusion herself.

Years later she joined the Board.
The promotion was deserved.
Not because she had mastered numbers.
Because she had learned to integrate two worlds that many people mistakenly separate: people and capital.
Humanity and performance.
She understood that neither can succeed sustainably without the other.

Looking back, one outcome gives me particular satisfaction.
The organisation no longer required external advocates for performance management.
One of its strongest advocates had emerged from within: The HR Director herself.

Thank you for reading my story.

This story is part of a series—”The Banana Republic Hotel and What It Taught Me About Myself”—in which I share lessons learned throughout my professional and personal journey and how those experiences have shaped my thinking and led me to develop my own principles.

If you enjoyed reading the story and have the appetite to read another one, you are invited to visit G&A’s website, in particular its INSIGHTS page, where you can find all stories.
Alternatively, click here to be taken to the next story.

I hope it has provided some food for thought, encouraged curiosity, and inspired you to keep learning.

Curiosity, humility, and continuous learning remain among the most valuable tools we possess.

Terminology for non-hoteliers:

  • SOP: Standard Operating Procedure – a documented process describing how a task should be performed to ensure consistency, quality, and compliance.
  • KPIs: Key Performance Indicators – measurable indicators used to monitor performance and progress against objectives.
  • ADR: Average Daily Rate – the average room rate paid by guests.
  • RevPAR: Revenue per Available Room – a measure combining occupancy and room rate to assess hotel revenue performance.
  • Occupancy: The percentage of available rooms that are occupied.
  • DOF: Double Occupancy Factor – the average number of guests staying in each occupied room. A DOF of 1.0 means every occupied room has one guest; 2.0 means every occupied room has two guests.
  • AGC: Average Guest Check – the average amount spent by each guest in a restaurant, bar, or other food and beverage outlet.
  • CRS: Central Reservation System – the central booking system that manages a hotel’s room inventory, rates, and reservations across all sales channels.
  • PMS: Property Management System – the software used to manage reservations, guest accounts, and hotel operations.
  • OTA: Online Travel Agency – websites such as Booking.com or Expedia that sell hotel rooms on behalf of hotels.
  • GDS: Global Distribution System – a worldwide booking network used by travel agents and corporate travel departments to reserve hotel rooms, flights, and other travel services.
  • CRM: Customer Relationship Management – systems and processes used to manage guest relationships and marketing.
  • F&B: Food & Beverage Department – all restaurant, bar, banquet, room service, and catering operations within a hotel.
  • Half-Board: A hotel meal plan that includes breakfast and one additional meal each day, usually dinner. Drinks other than those specifically included are generally charged separately.
  • MICE: Meetings, Incentives, Conferences and Events – the hotel business related to corporate meetings, conferences, exhibitions, and incentive travel.
  • ERP: Enterprise Resource Planning – an integrated software system that connects key business functions such as finance, procurement, inventory, human resources, sales, and reporting into a single platform.
  • USALI: Uniform System of Accounts for the Lodging Industry – the internationally recognised accounting standard used by hotels to measure and compare financial performance.
  • GOP: Gross Operating Profit – the operating profit generated by the hotel before management fees, rent, financing costs, depreciation, taxes, and other non-operating expenses.
  • EBITDA: Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation and Amortisation – a widely used measure of an organisation’s operating profitability.
  • COS: Cost of Sales – the direct cost of producing the goods sold, such as food, beverages, or merchandise, expressed as an amount or percentage of revenue.
  • FTE: Full-Time Equivalent – a standard measure of staffing that converts part-time and seasonal employees into the equivalent number of full-time employees.

About the Author

Raoul Gransier is a Senior International Adviser and owner-focused hotelier with more than 30 years of operational and advisory experience in hospitality, tourism, governance, and performance improvement.

Website

https://gransier.com

The Most Admirable Hotel General Manager I Know

This story is about how authenticity taught me that leadership begins with understanding who you are.

Throughout my career, I have encountered many leaders who tried to imitate others.
The successful ones rarely did.
The strongest leaders usually possess a deep understanding of who they are.
They then build upon that foundation, not by replacing their strengths, but by complementing them.

The most memorable Hotel General Manager I know taught me a lesson I continue to carry today.
People do not follow perfection. They follow authenticity.
And authenticity becomes more powerful when combined with curiosity and a willingness to keep learning.

Over the years, I have worked with many Hotel General Managers.
Some were commercially brilliant. Some were operationally exceptional.
Some were charismatic. Some were disciplined.
Some were feared. Some were respected.

One in particular remains in my memory.
Not because he was the most analytical, or achieved the best KPIs.
And certainly not because he was the most demanding.
In many ways, he is my opposite. His teams genuinely love him.
Not merely respect him. They love him.
There is a difference.

He is approachable, patient, and genuinely interested in people.
He remembers names, families, birthdays, concerns, and successes.
People naturally want to do well for him.
I admire that. Because – even if our worldview is the same – I could not do it the way he does.
My instinct has always been different. I gravitate toward structure, numbers, expectations, analysis, and systems.
When faced with a problem, I look for causes.
He looks for people first.

Yet over time, something interesting happened.
He became increasingly curious about the commercial and operational logic behind the business.
Not because he wanted to become more analytical, but because he wanted to become more effective.
He started asking different questions.
Questions about profitability. Questions about assumptions.
Questions about consequences. Questions about why things worked the way they did.
And then he did something important. He did not abandon who he was.
He incorporated what he learned into who he already was.

The result was remarkable.
The warmth remained. The humanity remained.
The connection with his teams remained.
But now there was additional clarity, additional discipline, and additional understanding.

Eventually he was promoted.
The promotion surprised nobody. Least of all me.
What impressed me was not the promotion itself.
It was his evolution. He did not become somebody else.
He became more complete.

Perhaps more.
He taught me that leadership is not merely about achieving better numbers.
It is about becoming the best version of yourself.
The numbers are often a consequence rather than the objective.

His path happened to be different from mine. And that was precisely why it was valuable.

Thank you for reading my story.

This story is part of a series—”The Banana Republic Hotel and What It Taught Me About Myself”—in which I share lessons learned throughout my professional and personal journey and how those experiences have shaped my thinking and led me to develop my own principles.

If you enjoyed reading the story and have the appetite to read another one, you are invited to visit G&A’s website, in particular its INSIGHTS page, where you can find all stories.
Alternatively, click here to be taken to the next story.

I hope it has provided some food for thought, encouraged curiosity, and inspired you to keep learning.

Curiosity, humility, and continuous learning remain among the most valuable tools we possess.

Terminology for non-hoteliers:

  • SOP: Standard Operating Procedure – a documented process describing how a task should be performed to ensure consistency, quality, and compliance.
  • KPIs: Key Performance Indicators – measurable indicators used to monitor performance and progress against objectives.
  • ADR: Average Daily Rate – the average room rate paid by guests.
  • RevPAR: Revenue per Available Room – a measure combining occupancy and room rate to assess hotel revenue performance.
  • Occupancy: The percentage of available rooms that are occupied.
  • DOF: Double Occupancy Factor – the average number of guests staying in each occupied room. A DOF of 1.0 means every occupied room has one guest; 2.0 means every occupied room has two guests.
  • AGC: Average Guest Check – the average amount spent by each guest in a restaurant, bar, or other food and beverage outlet.
  • CRS: Central Reservation System – the central booking system that manages a hotel’s room inventory, rates, and reservations across all sales channels.
  • PMS: Property Management System – the software used to manage reservations, guest accounts, and hotel operations.
  • OTA: Online Travel Agency – websites such as Booking.com or Expedia that sell hotel rooms on behalf of hotels.
  • GDS: Global Distribution System – a worldwide booking network used by travel agents and corporate travel departments to reserve hotel rooms, flights, and other travel services.
  • CRM: Customer Relationship Management – systems and processes used to manage guest relationships and marketing.
  • F&B: Food & Beverage Department – all restaurant, bar, banquet, room service, and catering operations within a hotel.
  • Half-Board: A hotel meal plan that includes breakfast and one additional meal each day, usually dinner. Drinks other than those specifically included are generally charged separately.
  • MICE: Meetings, Incentives, Conferences and Events – the hotel business related to corporate meetings, conferences, exhibitions, and incentive travel.
  • ERP: Enterprise Resource Planning – an integrated software system that connects key business functions such as finance, procurement, inventory, human resources, sales, and reporting into a single platform.
  • USALI: Uniform System of Accounts for the Lodging Industry – the internationally recognised accounting standard used by hotels to measure and compare financial performance.
  • GOP: Gross Operating Profit – the operating profit generated by the hotel before management fees, rent, financing costs, depreciation, taxes, and other non-operating expenses.
  • EBITDA: Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation and Amortisation – a widely used measure of an organisation’s operating profitability.
  • COS: Cost of Sales – the direct cost of producing the goods sold, such as food, beverages, or merchandise, expressed as an amount or percentage of revenue.
  • FTE: Full-Time Equivalent – a standard measure of staffing that converts part-time and seasonal employees into the equivalent number of full-time employees.

About the Author

Raoul Gransier is a Senior International Adviser and owner-focused hotelier with more than 30 years of operational and advisory experience in hospitality, tourism, governance, and performance improvement.

Website

https://gransier.com

The Dome in the Pamir Mountains

This story is about purpose.

Some moments stay with me far longer than the hotel budgets, RevPAR reports, or quarterly reviews I once spent so much time preparing.

This photograph captures one of those moments.

Just before the COVID pandemic, I stood high in the Pamir Mountains of Kyrgyzstan with the owner of a small guesthouse from Osh.
Behind us stretched one of the most remote landscapes I have ever visited.
The cold was unforgiving. Yet the atmosphere was filled with optimism.

The year before this owner had joined a study tour I organised in Italy.
The objective was straightforward: to explore how agritourism could create new opportunities for small hospitality businesses.
While others were interested in improving existing operations, he spoke about something entirely different.

He had a dream.
He wanted to build a dome lodge high in the mountains, on the road between Osh and the Tajik border.
The M41, more commonly known as the Pamir Highway (Russian: Памирский тракт, romanised: Pamirsky Trakt), is a road traversing the Pamir Mountains across Afghanistan, Uzbekistan, Tajikistan, and Kyrgyzstan, with a length of over 1,200 km.
It sounded ambitious.

The location was remote.
The operating season was short. Infrastructure was limited.
Most advisers would probably have started by listing the risks.
Instead, we spoke about possibilities.
Not because optimism replaces analysis, but because good analysis should never extinguish genuine ambition.

Despite COVID, despite the lack of infrastructure, and despite difficult financing, he made his dream come true.
The lodge generated year-round employment for local families.
Young people who might otherwise have left their villages for poorly paid work abroad could now build a future closer to home.
Visitors discovered one of the world’s most extraordinary mountain landscapes.
One entrepreneur’s determination had quietly changed a small part of his community.

That project reminded me why I entered hospitality in the first place.

Throughout my career, I became fascinated by numbers.

  • Occupancy
  • ADR
  • RevPAR
  • GOP and EBITDA flow-through
  • Cash flow
  • Governance

They all matter. 
Without them, businesses struggle to survive. But they are not the purpose.
They are the justification.

The real purpose lies elsewhere.
A profitable hotel creates opportunities for owners to invest.
It creates stable employment. It gives young people careers. It supports suppliers.
It pays taxes that, when used well, strengthen economies and communities.
It allows people to dream a little bigger than they otherwise could.

Whenever I review a hotel’s performance today, I still look at the numbers first.
But I try never to stop there.
Because somewhere behind every dashboard are people whose lives will be better—or worse—depending on the decisions those numbers help us make.

The dome in the Pamir Mountains reminded me that the most meaningful KPI is sometimes the one that never appears on any management report.

Thank you for reading my story.

This story is part of a series—”The Banana Republic Hotel and What It Taught Me About Myself”—in which I share lessons learned throughout my professional and personal journey and how those experiences have shaped my thinking and led me to develop my own principles.

If you enjoyed reading the story and have the appetite to read another one, you are invited to visit G&A’s website, in particular its INSIGHTS page, where you can find all stories.
Alternatively, click here to be taken to the next story.

I hope it has provided some food for thought, encouraged curiosity, and inspired you to keep learning.

Curiosity, humility, and continuous learning remain among the most valuable tools we possess.

Terminology for non-hoteliers:

  • SOP: Standard Operating Procedure – a documented process describing how a task should be performed to ensure consistency, quality, and compliance.
  • KPIs: Key Performance Indicators – measurable indicators used to monitor performance and progress against objectives.
  • ADR: Average Daily Rate – the average room rate paid by guests.
  • RevPAR: Revenue per Available Room – a measure combining occupancy and room rate to assess hotel revenue performance.
  • Occupancy: The percentage of available rooms that are occupied.
  • DOF: Double Occupancy Factor – the average number of guests staying in each occupied room. A DOF of 1.0 means every occupied room has one guest; 2.0 means every occupied room has two guests.
  • AGC: Average Guest Check – the average amount spent by each guest in a restaurant, bar, or other food and beverage outlet.
  • CRS: Central Reservation System – the central booking system that manages a hotel’s room inventory, rates, and reservations across all sales channels.
  • PMS: Property Management System – the software used to manage reservations, guest accounts, and hotel operations.
  • OTA: Online Travel Agency – websites such as Booking.com or Expedia that sell hotel rooms on behalf of hotels.
  • GDS: Global Distribution System – a worldwide booking network used by travel agents and corporate travel departments to reserve hotel rooms, flights, and other travel services.
  • CRM: Customer Relationship Management – systems and processes used to manage guest relationships and marketing.
  • F&B: Food & Beverage Department – all restaurant, bar, banquet, room service, and catering operations within a hotel.
  • Half-Board: A hotel meal plan that includes breakfast and one additional meal each day, usually dinner. Drinks other than those specifically included are generally charged separately.
  • MICE: Meetings, Incentives, Conferences and Events – the hotel business related to corporate meetings, conferences, exhibitions, and incentive travel.
  • ERP: Enterprise Resource Planning – an integrated software system that connects key business functions such as finance, procurement, inventory, human resources, sales, and reporting into a single platform.
  • USALI: Uniform System of Accounts for the Lodging Industry – the internationally recognised accounting standard used by hotels to measure and compare financial performance.
  • GOP: Gross Operating Profit – the operating profit generated by the hotel before management fees, rent, financing costs, depreciation, taxes, and other non-operating expenses.
  • EBITDA: Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation and Amortisation – a widely used measure of an organisation’s operating profitability.
  • COS: Cost of Sales – the direct cost of producing the goods sold, such as food, beverages, or merchandise, expressed as an amount or percentage of revenue.
  • FTE: Full-Time Equivalent – a standard measure of staffing that converts part-time and seasonal employees into the equivalent number of full-time employees.

About the Author

Raoul Gransier is a Senior International Adviser and owner-focused hotelier with more than 30 years of operational and advisory experience in hospitality, tourism, governance, and performance improvement.

Website

https://gransier.com

Growing Pains in the Restaurant

This story is about how perseverance is often learned long before competence arrives.

One of my earliest memories in hospitality dates back to my trainee period at a classical grand restaurant, one of the most prestigious dining establishments in town.

This was not merely a restaurant in the modern sense.
It belonged to a different era of hospitality.
Guests expected classical service, silver service, guéridon preparations, carving and flambéing at the table, and a level of product knowledge that is increasingly rare today.

I struggled with systems. I made mistakes continuously.
I mixed up dishes. I confused a Caesar Salad for Mixed Salad, Rösti with Pommes Frites, Chicken with Pork, and so on…
Orders arrived in the kitchen one way and occasionally emerged as something entirely different.
The Executive Chef, not my direct supervisor but obviously frustrated with me as a young man, took me aside and told me I was the worst trainee he had encountered in his career.
At the time, he was probably right, and his feelings were shared by many in both the kitchen and service teams.

Every day, before the dinner shift, the Maître d’Hôtel assembled the service brigade for a formal briefing.
It always began with questions about the menu delivered in almost military fashion.
We were expected to know every dish, every ingredient, every garnish, every wine pairing, the correct serving temperatures, and even which vintage might be most appropriate.
We were also expected to execute the full repertoire of classical service techniques, from guéridon service to carving and flambéing tableside.
Orders were committed to memory as they were taken, and executed.
No handheld devices, no POS terminals, no technology beyond the NCR cash registers.
The service brigade consisted of the best of the best, many of whom would later become celebrated sommeliers, fromagers, maîtres d’hôtel, restaurateurs, and hospitality professionals around the world.
The Maître d’Hôtel’s management technique was not to correct or reprimand those who did not know the answers to his questions.
The stares from the rest of the team did the job, and I received many of them.

Yet, for some reason, they kept me on the most prestigious shift: dinner service.
Looking back, I still do not know why.
It would have been easier to move me to polishing silverware or room service.
At the time, I would have considered that a demotion.
Later, I learned that those duties were no less important than any other role in the operation.
Hospitality is built on respect for every task, not just the visible ones.

I was a young kid, alone in a different country, trying to find my place in a profession I did not yet understand.
The venue I was working in was clearly in the highest league I could have found myself in.
To make matters worse, I was far too proud to admit how lost I felt.
Or that some evenings I cried myself to sleep.

What stayed with me was not the criticism.
It was what I chose to do with it. And what happened afterwards.
I became determined to face the failure. To understand.
Not to defend myself. Not to explain. To learn.
I started asking questions. I watched.
I listened. I practised.
Slowly, things started to make sense.

At the end of my training period, the same Executive Chef took me aside once again.
This time, he told me he had never experienced a trainee who had transformed so completely.
Looking back, this may have been one of the most important moments of my career.
Not because I received praise.
But because I learned something much more valuable.
Weaknesses are not permanent.
Provided one is willing to confront them.

Today, whenever I encounter something, I do not understand, I often think back to that restaurant and kitchen.
The lesson remains the same.
Failing at something is not the problem.
Refusing to learn is.

Thank you for reading my story.

This story is part of a series—”The Banana Republic Hotel and What It Taught Me About Myself”—in which I share lessons learned throughout my professional and personal journey and how those experiences have shaped my thinking and led me to develop my own principles.

If you enjoyed reading the story and have the appetite to read another one, you are invited to visit G&A’s website, in particular its INSIGHTS page, where you can find all stories.
Alternatively, click here to be taken to the next story.

I hope it has provided some food for thought, encouraged curiosity, and inspired you to keep learning.

Curiosity, humility, and continuous learning remain among the most valuable tools we possess.

Terminology for non-hoteliers:

  • SOP: Standard Operating Procedure – a documented process describing how a task should be performed to ensure consistency, quality, and compliance.
  • KPIs: Key Performance Indicators – measurable indicators used to monitor performance and progress against objectives.
  • ADR: Average Daily Rate – the average room rate paid by guests.
  • RevPAR: Revenue per Available Room – a measure combining occupancy and room rate to assess hotel revenue performance.
  • Occupancy: The percentage of available rooms that are occupied.
  • DOF: Double Occupancy Factor – the average number of guests staying in each occupied room. A DOF of 1.0 means every occupied room has one guest; 2.0 means every occupied room has two guests.
  • AGC: Average Guest Check – the average amount spent by each guest in a restaurant, bar, or other food and beverage outlet.
  • CRS: Central Reservation System – the central booking system that manages a hotel’s room inventory, rates, and reservations across all sales channels.
  • PMS: Property Management System – the software used to manage reservations, guest accounts, and hotel operations.
  • OTA: Online Travel Agency – websites such as Booking.com or Expedia that sell hotel rooms on behalf of hotels.
  • GDS: Global Distribution System – a worldwide booking network used by travel agents and corporate travel departments to reserve hotel rooms, flights, and other travel services.
  • CRM: Customer Relationship Management – systems and processes used to manage guest relationships and marketing.
  • F&B: Food & Beverage Department – all restaurant, bar, banquet, room service, and catering operations within a hotel.
  • Half-Board: A hotel meal plan that includes breakfast and one additional meal each day, usually dinner. Drinks other than those specifically included are generally charged separately.
  • MICE: Meetings, Incentives, Conferences and Events – the hotel business related to corporate meetings, conferences, exhibitions, and incentive travel.
  • ERP: Enterprise Resource Planning – an integrated software system that connects key business functions such as finance, procurement, inventory, human resources, sales, and reporting into a single platform.
  • USALI: Uniform System of Accounts for the Lodging Industry – the internationally recognised accounting standard used by hotels to measure and compare financial performance.
  • GOP: Gross Operating Profit – the operating profit generated by the hotel before management fees, rent, financing costs, depreciation, taxes, and other non-operating expenses.
  • EBITDA: Earnings Before Interest, Taxes, Depreciation and Amortisation – a widely used measure of an organisation’s operating profitability.
  • COS: Cost of Sales – the direct cost of producing the goods sold, such as food, beverages, or merchandise, expressed as an amount or percentage of revenue.
  • FTE: Full-Time Equivalent – a standard measure of staffing that converts part-time and seasonal employees into the equivalent number of full-time employees.

About the Author

Raoul Gransier is a Senior International Adviser and owner-focused hotelier with more than 30 years of operational and advisory experience in hospitality, tourism, governance, and performance improvement.

Website

https://gransier.com